I’ve only been married for a couple of months and we’re only young and I’m still completing my studies so we’ve decided to wait 2 years before having a baby… but something inside of me is burning with disire to make our little baby and bring it into the world… the way I deal with this is preperation. So much prep.
We already have a cot and a stroller, new born dummies, sleepers, a bath, bathing supplies, booties, muslin wraps, cuddle blankets, teethers AND soooo many clothes. I’ve read the entire ‘what to expect when you’re expecting’ and countless other baby articles. I have lists upon lists of things we need to do and buy. I’ve researched local obg’s and prenatal classes and I’m on pre natal vitamens .. just in case… but I just don’t know if it’s normal.
I don’t feel like it’s a waist or anything, even if for some crazy reason we cant get pregnant we’re defiently adopting or forstering or kidnapping (not really) so that’s not my concern.. I just feel like it’s not a normal thing to do. Did anyone else do it or know of anyone who did it. I don’t understand my cluckiness but I just cant do anything about it.
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Other baby gift ideas sites online
- New Summer Muslin Wraps | Babybuds Blogspot
Fly girl says
I have only bought one thing and it is a photo frame that documents a child’s first year. I thought it was really cute. Even if I never have any children, I’ll give it to someone else. I am 28, newly married, not ready for kids yet either. Probably won’t be ready for at least 2 years and my husband and I are not in school or anything like that. But, no. We are not buying things for a baby that we are not having. I think that you’re really obsessed with the idea of the baby. I know you’re in school but why don’t you guys just start trying now since it seems you really want it?
Doodlestuff says
I think you are a little out there for someone under 25.
willow says
You sound very maternal but as you have decided to wait why dont you complete your studies and enjoy your time with your husband and then try for a baby when you are ready…You dont need any more baby stuff at the moment: wait until you are pregnant and then you can really go baby shopping!!!! all the best